Happily Ever After JC

I  attend a wedding of my dear friend today, all the way we drive down to Simpang Renggam Johor for Jasyida aka JC.

She is an office mate, one of my favorite sisters and one of the closest friends (who knows a few skeleton in the closet :)) and she is one of the best .

I am so happy for you dear - Welcome to another life, welcome to the marriage world-welcome to husband and wife world- 

If living alone makes you happy- being "2"  will make you happier. If living your life as 1 (person) is hard enough then when one becomes two - it does not promise any easy either. 

Marriage life is not always a bed of roses- It is a mixture of bittersweet (sweet sour ? :)) experiences that will make you become a wiser and more matured women. A life of many phases, and like any other life - it is a roller coaster ride- there is up and down.

But regardless of what you have heard from your surrounding about what or how some marriages have turned out - let me tell you that it is still a risk that is SO worth for you to take - and to realize at the end of the day that you have given the best of you to that life and make the best out of it and be able to look back later knowing that you have successfully going through each phase and face every single happy and and sad moments together as a couple .

I prayed that you and your husband will live happily ever after - to be there for each other as wife and husband, to be the best of friends to one another , a mentor and motivator to one another, a confidant to share problems and burdens - , and  to be the best mother and father to your children and the best grandfather and grandmother to your grandchildren and so on - as long as life allows you to live.

Embark on this life confidently dear, welcome all things that come your way, live it and seize it - navigate it carefully with love, wisdom and patience - and SURVIVE all.

To Shafiq Saat- you have got yourself a beautiful women. She is pretty inside out. And she is a very strong women (at heart)  who can (and have) survive the unfairness of the-not-so-kind-world.  

My last words for both of you - get and conquer love - nurture it all the time but be reminded that love cannot survive All - both of you have to survive each other, to give and take, to compromise and tolerate , to respect and understand and most importantly to LISTEN  and Be THERE for one another. Together your love will grow stronger than ever.