Oct 22, 2010

Al Kisahnya Jenny


Remember Jernih? Nowadays my children call her kak Jenny. Sometimes kak Lenny – hehe glamorous name kan.  She proposed the name herself when I told her that my children had hard time  pronouncing her name.

Anyway, She was heartbroken a few months back-  putus cinta – frust menonggeng- betrayed.- oh I am sure we have been there at some point of our life J

Her beloved boyfriend (who she leaves behind in Indon) is getting married  and to make thing worse – he is getting married to her sister, the one who went back home for good last Aug. Huwaaaaaaaaa : ( - that is double pain- double blow- that hurts like crazy man (ceh- macam aku lak frust kekekek).

I got to know about this from my girls- One day they menceceh and somehow blurted out that kak lenny sedih sebab pakwa dia nak kahwin – And I like, " what!!" – and  I quickly turned to Jernih (we were in the kitchen then) and asked her, "ïs it? When?, Why your boyfriend does such thing? Does your sister all the while like him?- bertubi tubi la kekekek– in a teasing tone of course- (busy body you Ermayum). 

And she said, "hmm dia cakap malas dah nak tunggu aku, dapat kakak aku pun ok la dia kata. Kakak aku suka ja kalu ada orang nak kahwin ngan dia, tak kisahla sapa sapa pun” alahai sian ko. But you see Jernih, that kind of man does not deserve you – you know- it is just  not worth it if  you cry your heart out, he is not worth of your tears - if he cannot wait for you and can just substitute you with you sister, he can anytime leave you for other women in the future-  this is his loss- not yours k- lebih kurang cam tu la, I cakap ngan dia J
Anyway- life moves on, and she is moving on- that was last raya punya story but sedih kan cite dia ? Time will heal  you, Jenny. Jokingly I added, "dont worry nanti ko balik byk duit, muka lawa, gigi pun dah rapat :D. mesti dia tergila kat ko balik" heheh.

How about dear dear semua, can you still feel the pain of a broken heart bila terkenang kenang masa lalu? :D, tak kira la frust menonggeng or frust terbaring, puppy love or teen love.  It is for good or else we will not be here with our beloved hubby and children kan. 

Till later - Have a great weekend semua :)

15 comments:

fizamior said...

OMG!(oh my gucci!!!!! )

own sister? owh! man!!! disaster betul la. bongok punya jantan. kot ye pun nk tinggalkan dia, jgn la ko gi kawen dgn kakak dia. jumpa jugak nnt. budus betul...

huhu.. sory terhangen plak. ekekekekkee

Brina Sabrina said...

style la akak! :)
i love this post!

btw, now dah jarang aktif kat my chicken soup...

sibuk dengan blog kucingggg je...

MY Passion for Persians... Jemput la singgah.. hehe

Syida said...

ada jugak frust menonggeng tunggang terbalik dulu2, tapi malas nak amik port dah sbb dah ada yg lebih baik.

CiKaYu said...

OMG, i pernah frust tak hengat, sbb bf ada pompuan lain....pastu rasa cam bodoh je frust menonggeng, sbb that man mmg x layak dpt i...(cam bagus je kan cikayu ni)...cheer up kak lenny, someone out there deserve u!!

ashra said...

yup..its true.kerana cinta yang telah blalu la membawa kepada kebahagiaan kita skang ni kan..dulu2 mmg la menanges bagai..skang,semuanya dapat bahagian masing2.hehe

BAYU HEBAT SDN. BHD said...

tumpang simpati utk mis Jenny...Happy Weekend erma!!

Unaizah said...

Siannye Jenny. Takde jodoh. Maybe jpdoh dia lg better....sapa tahukan.

TK said...

Jenny..nice nickname. Senang sebut...
I rasanya tak pernah frust menonggeng sbb bercinta dgn hubby satu tu je. Nasib baik tak berlaku tragedi oktober ke..

mJ said...

i mmg frust menonggeng tergolek dokkk masa putus chenta ngan so-called ari wibowo!!! sampai tak makan nasi 6 bulan!!! budus dussh!!! so i knw how's jenny feels...

wowo, love the statement gigi pun dah rapat!!!! i noticed that!!! heeeeeeeee

Lady of Leisure said...

alahai kesian pulak kat jenny kan.. sakitnya bercinta heheh..

meenyusuf said...

yeah..kita..kita! Dulu boyfren kita kan beria2 la nak tunang la hape la..then,kan..hari last kita jumpa dia,kt pudu,antar dia balik jb,dia student utm,kita kat um..then,boleh tak siap salam cium tangan semua,kan..then balik JB dia terus blah macam tuh aja,hilangkan diri..then tetiba clash dgn kita,xda angin takda ribut..I lost 20kgs! Macam nak gila rasanya..iskh!

maya amir said...

alaa siannye jenny.. sure die sedih gila kan..time will heal the wound!

Kiasu Mom said...

Cannot believe the sister would do such a thing. I guess anything is possible eh.. as for me, I have been lucky, never been heart broken before cause only got 1 boyfriend and he's now my hubby.. I have been a shoulder to cry on for some friends who experienced it and I am sure it ain't nice...

zarin said...

Teruknya her sister..teruknya her boyfren...tkpe jenny dah cantik nanti baru balik kg ye..baru padan muka ex boyfren tuh

Ermayum said...

fiza oh my LV indeed heheh memang jantan jenis tu mengong sapa ja leh sapu hehe

sab dear i always will dear :)

syida heheh pengalaman hidup kan

cikayu OM gucci exactly heheh cikAyu memang bagus

ashra betul tu dear :)

joy happy monday esok :)

mj hehe tu gigi azali belum buat apa apa heheh

unai iya laa nak buat camna sedangkan Mawi pun kahwin ngan ikin kan kekeke

TK u re lucky girl ada org nyanyi lagu MZ lagi uwaaaaaa :)

lady betul sakit yang kadang2 berbaloi :)

meen 20kg is alot u memang frust tertonggeng tonggeng ni hehehe
alhamdulillah dah berlalu kan

kiasumom u re lucky as well:) - dgr org cerita pun we know painful kan sendiri kena sakit wooo it kills the inside

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