Frustration & Anger

I have lunch with a friend today- counting her last day at work. She resigns out of anger towards her boss. Good boss can be our friends but " not so good " boss is our worse enemy-
Yet you need to face him or her every day- work days of course , some time during weekend his shadows hovers around you and sometimes he comes in your sleep reminding you on tomorrow's presentation, paper submission, site inspection etc.

Terrible boss does not communicate well, does not understand what he wants, does not stand on his principles, does not protect or support u when u re under " attack". Does not believe in you or your work, always find wrongs, give negative feedback and always demotivate u. yet u have to stand up and tolerate him and give what he wants (completed work of course)- I have one - I think you have one also once a while.

To resign because u cannot stand your boss is not worth it-find ways to see good in his words or actions - find the rationale and if u cannot - just do whatever is expected of u no more and no less- get the job done and once done, go home and LIVE.

It is only a job after all- find other job but dont resign before u have ONE- unless u re cash rich :)