Mar 24, 2011

62 Days

Salam

Last Sunday marks 62 days my dad left the world - starting his new journey in the other world. I had a small group of people (marhaban group in my residential area) recited doa and tahlil both for him  and my mum. I include doa selamat as well that he planned to do if  he completed his shops. So kedai pun sudah siap, so I think I should just proceed like what he had planned.

semua makanan tunjuk


There were about 20 persons in the group (bila lah agaknya I nak join they all ni kan - yang semuanya akak akak yang sedikit senior dan ada juga makcik makcik - maybe I perasan I muda lagi tak sedar diri dunia kata pergi kubur kata mari ),  InsyaAllah, moga dibuka kan hati dan diberi kelapangan. They are fully booked on weekend, you know. They have invitation for almost every week and I have to book them a few weeks in advance - kena tanya minggu mana they all kosong macam tu . So bayangkanlah iye, pahala yang mereka kumpulkan setiap Sabtu dan Ahad hanya dengan berkumpul 2 jam melagukan zikir dan salawat. Makan free pun dapat  :), but I know that is not what they are after. Sedekah dari tuan rumah pun dapat - seikhlas hati untuk tabung persatuan marhaban kerana mereka tidak mengenakan sebarang bayaran


Ni two of my CUCU :) 


Hmm back to my main topic (melencung sokmo), I dont follow any specific days (40/44/100 etc) this time. Oramg kampung kata ikut hari, but buku kata tak perlu kira hari hari tu :). So I will just follow my heart. Some other people say, kalau terasa nak buat, buat sahaja. But since this is the first time, I buat dekat rumah I yang dapurnya kecil comel tu, I tak berani nak masak sendiri or jemput ramai ramai orang. I jemput juga jiran depan belakang and sedara mara. So ramai jugalah at the end but for them I jemput makan ja hehe. So meriahlah, anak cucu semua ada(iya saya seorang nenek:))))

I hope that I would be able to hold this small group of tahlil selalu. And hopefully, the following month, I would be able to invite group lelaki pula but biasanya kalau jemputan lelaki dari orang orang surau, tahlilnya selepas isyak. Makanannya dinner dan bukan Hi-Tea yang macam I buat ni. InsyaAllah lah ye. Doakan :)

Till later
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14 comments:

screamingmommy said...

I hope by now u r slowly recoved beb:(

Azmiezas said...

akak kalau buat tahlil selalu jemput org surau n budak tahfiz..

apa2 pun ingatan kita pada arwah lagi penting..selalu berdoa semoga roh mereka dicucuri rahmat..dan ditempatkan dikalangan org2 yg soleh..Amin..

~ana~ said...

sis, i pun pelik, mcm mn boleh wujud nya tahlil ikut hari tu..biasa kat kg i mcm tu la..buat kenduri ikut hari...

pd pendpt i, kalau nak buat, buat je la kan...

Unaizah said...

Insya Allah, segala yg baik minta Allah permudahkan. Eh, yg warna oren + putih tu ape ye? Nampak sedap je...

TK said...

Salam nenek Eda,
Semoga roh both your parents dicucuri rahmat..
yg warna oren tu pudding ke..

Unknown said...

Setuju sangat dengan erma. Tak perlu nak ikut days yang ditetapkan. Tadak dalam sunnah pun.

Btw, u are real good daughter. Sure allahyarham bangga sangat.

maya amir said...

eh kejap jek eh dah 62 days.. nanti hari yg ke 100 akak plan buat gak ke?

Ermayum said...

screamingmommy i am getting better but lost of parents/child or spouse can never be recovered babe :( but it definitely make you stronger person

azmiezas betul kak kalau tak mampu nak buat makan baca ja sendiri kan

ana betu tu takda dalam kitab pun

unai thanks unai insyaAllah ada lapang masa dan reseki kan
yang oren TUNGGUUUUUU :)

TK thanks dear yang oren buah agar agar nanti i buat separate post :)

Hann pujian yang tak lanyak tu dear how good a daughter can be is never good enouf once they gone
:(:)

maya akak tak ikut hari maybe esok batu nesan kelimg tegak akak buat doa selamat n tahlil lagi tak tau hari 100 ke 150 ke 120 ke ikut rezeki dan kelapangan insyaAllah :)

Syida said...

since semua org da tanya psl yg kaler oren tu.tak jadi la kita nak tanya.

meenyusuf said...

Betul babe..meen pon buat aja bila hati rasa nak buat..insy I'm planning the 2nd one soon..Semoga arwah parents you ditempatkan di dalam golongan beriman..Insy...

ashra said...

al fatihah buat kedua2 ibu ayahnya.
moga akak tabah ya!

Kiasu Mom said...

Nenek??????

Eh, how come you have prayers on the 62nd day? Any specific reasons? share sikit

Ermayum said...

ashra thanks dear

meen betul tu buat ja bila ada kelapangan and rezeki

kiasumom iye nenek sedara - mu hybby sis ada anak yang dah kahwin :)
our prayers for those who have passsed away does not specify to any date. But Malay culture suka hold kenduri and prayers beramai ramai on 1, 2, 3 , 7, 40, 100 days after death but the islam religion itself does not specify that - we can just do anytime if we want but if we dont do any kenduri but remember to pray for the death every day on our own that would be sufficient as well

Ermayum said...

syidah dah tak yah tannya esok akak cite :)

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