A Women Story 1

This is a continuation from the other women and the other women II series-

 I know that she is a good person, a devoted mother, a rational being - knows what right and wrong so well - Anybody who knows her will know that she is beyond what one sees.


She has a hard life -  Once, she was a good wife trapped with an insecure husband who did not trust her, did not take care of her well being and did not treat her right.


She has been an object of man pursuit since then- a few of her pursuers are men with wives and there is one she got her heart entangles to.

So she becomes "the other woman".  She fails to see her wrongs. Befriending with somebody husband is not wrong- Yes, no wrong whatsoever if one is being a casual friend or  a true friend or even a best friend to somebody of a different gender-
if one knows where she and he should stand-if one knows what line to draw.  But if you are the one who is playing hard to get and there is an emotion (of mutual likeness or mutual love ) involved it is very wrong and very dangerous indeed.


As friends we do tried to knock in some sense into her head.  Mind our own business :) yes we should - but what a friend is, if you cannot even tell the truth or make the other friend sees right from wrong- or try to save the other from a heart-ache or heart-broken in the latter days- but of course being friends have its own limit- voicing out ones' opinion is the least that friends can do.

She says and believes in something  but does another thing. Maybe because she cannot lie to her heart. Anything that involves a matter of heart is a complicated matter altogether.

But I bet that she should know where she stands. Accept the fact that the object of love is a somebody's husband. Accept the fact that he is the type of man who will not leave his wife- accept the fact that he cannot make you the offer that you long for - a normal family life-

She is 'the one who has been hurt' should have known better about being hurt-betrayed and stabbed- why she has to do that to another being ?

She is the one who vowed not to destroy one's happinesses but adamantly saying that she only wants this man solely for herself- how could that be possible?

If you cannot compromise of being the second one- then do not cross that line at all- run as fast as one can and entertain him no more.
If you cannot- do it the right way- and please be reminded that there are alot more compromises that you have to take-


So take him partially or leave him totally.

Dont ever compromise on your heart - if you cannot take anything less than what you aim for- run and dissappear. Not worth for you to wait if it is you the one who will get hurt-

Do not hold on something that is easily broken- you will fall and collapse - you will break into pieces- once again.  

Only you can save yourself

PS: This is an auto post