Walk Out Part II

And there is another friend who recently seeks my advise. A dear sister - walk out of that man while you can. You can do this dear. Do it now.

Her weakness is every women weakness. We surrender to pujuk dan rayu. Most tend to fall for the same jerks (oop sorry) over and over because they are really good - their words are really sweet when they beg for forgiveness and declare undying love. Knees goes weak. Anger disappears and vanish into the thin air :) and in no time they will make up. 

But issues are not settled. Then the  fight will start again and they will  break up again and  make up again. How many times of that cycle you want to go through?

Walk out and run. Be strong. Do not give in. Your are pretty, You are young, you have a good career and you have supportive parents and friends. You can walk out from him now because you have no obligation. Do not be in a relation that has no future. Do not allow him to mislead you. Do not allow him to play with your emotion. Run now while you can.

Yes, I understand your fear. Nobody wants to be alone- To live alone. But do not stay just because you are afraid you cannot find another man. Dear, jodoh dari Allah. Sampai masa sampai lah. Why are you afraid then? (Maybe you would say it is easier for me to say because I am married, yes it is easier said than done).

Live and enjoy your life. Meet new people and befriends all. Love will come one day. Have faith. Trust your heart. 

PS: 
>Easier to walk away if one is unmarried. but then again if it does not work it does not work. why should one stays in unhappy relationship for the sake of children?. Weigh the pro and cons and come to a wiser decision. Again some relationship is worth a second chance but not 3rd, or 4th chances. When the time comes, I believe each women is strong enough to say - enough is enough. We need to be a strong women and independent women at all times.


>After all who knows what will happen tomorrow? Do you know? I dont know and my views towards life is very realistic - I make the best out of today. But I dont know what tomorrow will promise. I need to have control over my life because the one that I have to hold on forever is only myself - sad to say but that is the truth.